If you’re struggling in life you have two choices. You can get better, or you can grow bitter. Each will require the same amount of effort. Let’s face it. If you don’t seek change, chances are, you might be more comfortable complaining, than your are, making the necessary changes to improve your life. Your happiness is a direct result of what you do, not what someone else, does. If you’re not happy, why? Reclaim your power by focusing on you. What changes do you need to make? Do you practice gratitude? Are you playing God? Is feeling miserable, become your new, normal? Have you reached out, or embraced faith? Do you attend meetings? What are you doing to look after yourself? Change is possible, but it requires courage and a willingness to take an honest look at oneself. What role do you play in the situation you’re in? If you’ve said none, then you’re in denial. Reach out and seek support. Starting over is as easy as changing your attitude. Your life will reflect the choices you make. Nothing more, nothing less. If you want something different, you must do something different. Tired of being stuck? Then get going! You’re only as happy as you decide to be.